“What country is like America?”   Leave a comment

None, and that’s not necessarily a bad thing ^_^

This message is to those who don’t live in the U.S., Canada or Mexico and want to move here: America is not the Utopia you think it is. I will admit I decided to actually write this after talking to a few new friends I made via Facebook but I meant to write this back in 2012. I also want to make it clear in all of these there is no sarcasm or humor. AT ALL.

Ok let’s get started with the Politics first:


  • You are expected to be fluent in English AND know the American culture when you arrive. The problem with the latter is the American culture depends on what part of America you are in.
  • Coming from the African continent and have brown skin? Avoid Milwaukee, St. Louis and the states of Florida, Missouri, Mississippi and possibly Tennessee. If you don’t want to get killed by Law Enforcement, that is. Avoid Chicago as well since it is the Homicide Capital of America. Yes, the same Chicago former President Barack Obama is from.
  • If you are a Muslim woman, don’t travel in public places alone if you don’t have to. You may be harassed by a biggot.
  • Going with the above: Just like 100 years ago with European immigrants, if you are Muslim you’ll need to hide it if you want to get by. And don’t even think about speaking anything other than English in public. Not if you don’t want to be harassed.
  • America is big on Hypocrisy: Say one thing and do another. Do what I say, not what I do. Pot calling the kettle black. And so on. Yet most Americans still have no idea this is exactly why there are people who hate America: They hate the hypocrisy and the majority who bought into it and even defend it with force.
  • You have rights but they can be violated at the drop of a hat when it’s convenient. Not just because you’re not White.
  • During elections, most people go by what they see and hear on TV. They don’t research candidates on their own before they vote. That’s how Donald Trump was elected prettymuch. Now we’re dealing with the consequences.
  • Protesting injustice in America is considered controversial. Why? Good question. The short answer: The truth hurts.
  • Most Americans actually ARE NOT racist. Many ARE igorant of other cultures though.
  • Just like everywhere else, there ARE people who will do you and yours harm without a second thought.
  • Contrary to how its (S)elected “Officials” like to present the country as a whole to the rest of the world, America does not speak with one voice but many. This is not a disclaimer. It is a fact and that it is. The good and bad thing is it ALWAYS has to be like this. It’s good when the government decides to do the right thing and bad when it doesn’t.
  • On that last note: Yes, there are alot of Americans who don’t want “everyone” to have free healthcare out of spite but could care less about their taxpayer dollars being spent to kill people who hold no ill will toward them or the U.S. elsewhere.

I could go on but I have other categories to go through. Again, this is reality in the U.S. right now and HAS BEEN FOR DECADES.

Let’s go on to the American Lifestyle next:

  • First and foremost, America in general is obsessed with materialism and wasteful spending. Not everyone but as a country, this is the reality. It’s obvious as soon as you leave the plane. You will immediately see posters and advertisements everywhere telling you things like “You need this” and “You want this”.
  • The “typical” American diet presented on TV and the Internet should be ignored unless you want to die early or eventually from heart disease and/or cancer. The Fast Food industry–McDonalds, Taco Bell, KFC, Popeyes, Subway and Burger King to name a few–spends millions each year in advertisements to lure people in to eat their high-sodium and high-sugar foods. A burger, fries and a soda is NOT a balanced meal. Three tacos and a soda is NOT a balanced meal. A footlong sub, a bag of Doritos and a soda is NOT a balanced meal.
  • Going with the above: For some reason, Organic Foods cost more than processed foodstuffs in a grocery store or supermarket. No, really: If you walk into a Supermarket, you will notice foods that are actually good for you actually cost more than unhealthhy options. A frozen Macaroni & Cheese dinner will cost you $1 in most chain supermarkets. A Macaroni and Cheese dinner with liquid cheese (just boil the pasta then add the cheese) costs $4 on average. If you want to make Macaroni and Cheese from scratch, be prepared to spend at least $7. Yes, it actually costs more to eat healthy in the U.S.
  • The introduction of the internet 20 years ago changed how people interact with each other. Even though it has made it far easier for people to connect with each other, it has also made it far easier for people to isolate themselves. Get on a bus or train and more often than not, most of the people are looking at their phones.
  • For some reason, it makes sense for someone to have to work two or three jobs just to keep a roof over their head. No, really.
  • The general expectation for high school graduates is for them to go to college. That’s assuming they can afford it. Most college students end up in debt weather they finish or not. Those who don’t are either very well off or have a full scholarship. To add injury to insult, there are many college graduates who end up working retail because no one wants to hire someone fresh out of college without any experience.
  • The introduction of Social Media can make dating more confusing than it has to be. Yet, for some reason this is what many people want even though they don’t like it personally.
  • It far easier for relationships to fall apart due to the threat of affairs, internet porn, domestic abuse, distrust and insecurity. This is also why over half of marriages in the U.S. end in divorce: Relationships are not usually built over time as was the norm years ago and as a result, marriages are rushed into. Most couples do not seek marriage counseling in advance and as a result, they do not realize they actually have little reason on their own to make the relationship work long-term. Not until after it’s collapsed beyond repair.
  • Americans like to complain and voice grievences against government officials and policies but are often slow to either hold them accountable or or vote them out of office.
  • People will complain about how absurd it is to pay $1000 for a cellphone but many of those same folks will be lining up to but one or in the days leading up to its release.


While most Americans DO agree Hunger, Homelessness and Poverty ARE problems that need to be solved AND easily can be, there is a catch: Not everyone agrees on HOW it should be solved. Think about this. Americans want all these problems to be solved but the overwhelming majority don’t want to have to lift a finger or pay a cent to make it happen. Rather, most feel “someone else” should pay for it as long as it isn’t them either directly or via taxes. No, really.

Let’s go on to Primary and Secondary Education now:


  • First and foremost, if you want your child to have a proper education be prepared to pay for it and I mean BEFORE college. America is not in the top 10 in Education for obvious reasons. The biggest one: Education is not considered a right in America.
  • In most large school districts, students are not taught to learn but are instead taught memorization geared around testing from an early age, usually on material they never learned or weren’t given enough time to learn well. Frequent cuts to federal, state and local funding has led to Art, Music, Social Studies, History, Geography and more recently P.E. being eliminated from most school curriculums. This has also led to an overcrowding problem in some schools and half-empty classrooms in others as parents move their kids to or from schools.
  • Thinking of college? Do you have a 5 or 6-figure income? No? Then, you’re better off enrolling in either a Community College or a Vocational School. Most who go to a major college or university leave with debt they will spend up to 20 to 30 years trying to pay off.
  • For those whose first language is not English, it is advised that you take a year just learning how to read, write and speak American English: In most school districts, ESL (English as a Seconf Language) students are only given a year even though for most that is far from sufficient time to become proficient in English.
  • Going with the above: If you have a heavy or thick accent, it is also reccommended you take English Language Arts courses to reduce your accent.
  • Also: English is the official language of the United States BUT just like everywhere else, it is NOT against the law to speak another language. Anyone who angrily tells you “Speak English!” or “We only speak English here!” is probably a racist and a biggot. As long as you know enough to get by, that’s fine. For years some lawmakers have been trying to get Spanish and Mandarin (Chinese) added as secondary languages due to the large numbers of Immigrants who come to the U.S. from China and Latin America every year respectively.


I could go on but in short, there is a heavy emphasis on knowledge you’re expected to know even though you clearly haven’t learned it yet. Again, there is a reson the U.S. is ranked 47th in Education: The system wants you smart enough to pay taxes and keep them in office but dumb enough not to threaten the system. You want a quality education for you and yours? Look to Community Colleges and Vocational Schools.


Finally, let’s talk about Religion and Morality:

  • Contrary to popular belief by most Americans, the United States does NOT have a state religion and never has. Not officially, that is. Calls by (S)elected “Officials” for reccommending prayer or suggesting people pray at certain times is in itself controversial BECAUSE it promotes and endorses a particular belief held by both the speaker and many in the country and THAT can easily be seen as violating someone else’s Freedom of Religion.
  • Going with the above: It would not be accurate to call the United States a “Christian Nation” because there are many different Christian denominations. I’m a Seventh Day Adventist for example.
  • As noted, America wrestles with the fact although there is no official state religion, conservatives and The Vatican have been pressuring government “officials” to establish one “because of tradition and patriotism”. The obvious problem is this would nullify Freedom of Religion. I mean both ways. As a reminder, there are dozens of Christian denominations.
  • The interesting and ironic hypocrisy of Christian Missionary work based out of the U.S.: There is much work to be done but the problem is a lack of funding. Many missionary projects and sites have been either abandoned or shut down due to lack of funds to keep running. Why? Because not enough money is going out from the U.S. to properly fund and maintain them. This is for ALL Christian denominations across the board.
  • To some American Christians, the ACLU and the government suing or stopping them from using their beliefs to violate the civil rights of others is “Persecution”. I’m specifically referring to the significant number of American Christians who feel it is their job, calling and right to infringe upon the Civil Liberties of the LGBT Community*.
  • Going with the above: Some American Christians feel it is far more productive to picket and shut down Abortion Clinics than to protest the NEED for them to exist. In a country where unprotected sex, infidelity, sexual assault and teen pregnancy are both encouraged and glorified via mass media and the internet, unwanted pregnancies** should come as no surprise. On top of it, it has already been proven beyond reasonable doubt in several countries that an abstinence-only policy (No sex before marriage) without Sex Ed (including education about condoms to prevent an unwanted pregnancy and the spread of STDs) on top of it ensures unwanted pregnancies will continue to happen.

    * The Bible DOES speak against the practice of Homesexuality–almost 80 separate times, in fact–but it DOES NOT encourage violence or discrimination against those who are. Those who do either and/or both are taking matters into their own hands, which is ironic given the Bible also clearly states “Judge not lest ye be judged”.

    ** Rather than bully a woman for going to get an abortion clinic, a far more effective alternative would be to offer to adopt her unborn child and cover all medical appointments as well. What’s that? That would mean actually valuing the life of an unborn child? Well, it’s better than an unwanted pregnancy being secretly carried to term, the baby dellivered in a bathroom and then being put in a dumpster or toilet like trash.


As I mentioned in another category, America is morally bankrupt and has been for DECADES:

  • As I mentioned in a separate blog post, the gun debate in the U.S. was decided after the Sandy Hook mass shooting: When we decided as a society that two classrooms full of 6 and 7 year olds being gunned down was bearable, that ended the debate right there.
  • As I mentioned in a video blog, Murders and Homicides are glorified in American TV Shows and Movies: It comes as no surprise given although the U.S. is only 241 years old, it has been at war in all but 8 of them. Just look at the national anthem, which glorifies and promotes war. Before the Call of Duty and Medal of Honor video games were even thought of, movies and documentaries glorifying World War II were mega popular in the U.S.
  • The biggest highlight of American Hypocrisy is how much it glorifies sex: Movies, TV Shows, Billboards. Yet, you have many people wondering why the Teen Pregnancy rate in the U.S. spiked 10 years ago. The movie Juno and TV shows like The Secret Life of the American Teenager, 16 & Pregnant and Teen Mom had alot to do with that.
  • The American society reveres celebrities, athletes, TV Personalities, politicians and even fictional characters as if they were gods or royalty. In no other country can a person become famous just for being famous.
  • Going with the above: America has an obsession with being entertained at the expense of others. In games of sport, it’s not enough for someone to “lose”. No, the one who doesn’t win or is eliminated from competition deserves to be teased and bullied into submission by both the winner and spectators. The term that comes to mind is “Sore Winner” and it is reminicient of Roman coliseums.
  • Overall, America’s motto really should be “Do as I say, not as I do”: Politicians like to tell the rest of the world what they should or shouldn’t be doing as if they are in ANY position to do so with the blatant human and civil rights violations that take place daily within the country.


I think that’s enough to make my point. I’d keep going but then this would go really, really long. My point is America should not be looked to as model for good morals. It’s morally bankrupt and has been for DECADES. No country is perfect but at least they don’t go as far as America feels is it’s right to pretend it’s “The greatest country in the world”.

…Yes, I am a U.S. Citizen and no, I am not an Anarchist. This post took me a month to write because of how difficult it was for me to write this about the country I was born and raised in. All that said…it should be faitly obvious by now that the United States as it is currently known is about to come to an end. This country has gone to a very dark place and things are going to get worse, not better.  I am sure many of my fellow Americans don’t like hearing that but it’s the truth and an unescapable reality. Just look how the Ancient Roman Empire ended. It didn’t happen overnight. It took years to reach that point but it eventually fell.


Getting back to the American Christian experience. Something an American Adventist Missionary in Cambodia said in a program I recently watched sums it up rather well: American Christians are complacent and lack a purpose. There is not enough incentive or motivation to Evangelize and spread The Gospel. Most are content to go to church, talk to friends, family, calssmates or colleagues and stop there. It’s too…comfortable.

Speaking of too comfortable, Harriet Tubman said it best: More could be saved if they only knew they were slaves. To say many Americans are slaves in some way, shape or form would be accurate. Slaves to Debt. Slaves to Addiction. Slaves to Paaions. Slaves to Material  Things. Slaves to Lust. Slaves to Money. And so on.

I some other thoughts on the state of the U.S, but I will save it for a separate post. This has gone on long enough.



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